The main aim of this article is to clear up some of the common myths in the society associated with the grieving of pets.

Myth 1: It’s weird to grief over a pet loss?

Fact: Its not weird to grief over a pet loss rather its beneficial. Pet lovers understand that its so painful seeing the loss of a pet and the feeling is just like the pain one gets when a family member is lost. So, you have full right and reason to mourn on the loss of a pet.

Myth 2: Expressing sorry on the pet loss is not good

Fact: No, you are also a human being and had a great a bond between you and the pet. So, it is not bad to express sorry on the loss of a pet. Do as much cry or sorry as it was your closed but who is no more in the world now!

Myth 3: Blaming veterinarian for pet loss

Fact: Veterinarian is specialized doctor who takes care of our pets. When we lose and grieve on our pet lose we start blaming him for the loss. We consider him culprit and blaming him for the death of our companion loss.

This is not correct as the doctors are our well wishers and try hard to save our pet. But such mis-happenings can happen in the real medical world and nothing is in our hands.

So, one can be angry on the doctor but blaming him is not correct always!!

Myth 4: Taking extra time for sorrow and coming out of situation shows your weakness

Fact: You and your lost pet were like a family. You can not come out of the sorrow of your pet loss overnight. You are a human being and taking time to cope up with this situation is just normal!!

It does not mean that you are weak and not strong enough. You have full right to take some time off so that you can heal and move next in your life.

Myth 5: You should not get another pet

Fact: The pain that loving pet owners feel on losing the loving pet is immense. It can be really very hard to bear and handle the loss.

This loss can sometimes never be repaired and replaced throughout the life. It is true that seeing any other’s pet you would remember your own beloved one that you have lost.

Take your time and do not be in a haste to get a new one to wipe off the memories of your lost pet. Just take some time and wait for the right time. But never stop yourself of dreaming a pet in your life as no two pets could be the same. So, if at any point of time you feel right, just go and get a new pet.

Myth 6: I killed my pet

Fact: Every pet has a time span for which he lives. Also, every pet deserves a good and healthy life not a long and unhealthy one. They should not be suffering any pain for long. So if your pet is going through a pain and discomfort, its good to go for euthanasia.

Euthanasia is the right thing sometimes for your pets to get rid off any pain and discomfort.

Myth 6: It is selfish if I opt to euthanize my pet

Fact: If you are going through the loss of a pet and very sad on this….consider this normal.

If someone tells you to be judgemental, practical and not bother much on the loss, just ask him to get out of your sight.

If you had deep emotional bonding with your pet and stronger feelings, consider this as a point to boast upon and not a sign of weakness.

While watching any one random video I came to know about Gaurav Taneja. I searched for him on YouTube search bar and landed on his videos one by one. Very soon I got to realize why he has got 4+Million subscribers so far.

In today’s cut throat competition people are forgetting about their personal lives and spending more time in their workplace to get promotion and meeting career goals.

But there are few people who even after getting married and having kids are giving equal time to their family. They are presenting an example to the world and proving them all wrong.

When I watched their videos I came to know about them more and more. I have never personally met with them but believe that our lives are so much same. They show the same middle class values even after rising so high in their career. Both have been wonderful captains in their respective airlines.

Before ever hearing their name we were zero about them but after watching their videos we are more aware with the way they spend their life with so much modesty and never bring any ego clashes between them. Normally, it is seen that people in same profession often fight due to ego clashes.

8 Things we love about Gaurav Taneja and Ritu Rathee

1. Gaurav never shies away from shooting himself, wife Ritu or any of his family members when everyone is in their normal wears. They both talk like normal persons or can say humble person because most of the normal people believes in show off now a days as the definition for being normal has changed a lot.
2. Both of them believe in spending good quality time together. Ritu says that being in the same profession sometimes it is difficult to stay connected as we are very busy many times. But we compensate that by spending some extra time in weekends or whenever we get a break.
3. Gaurav celebrates the success of his wife with open heart. It is clear from the videos that he has posted on YouTube, and in one such video he is making announcement also in the plane about her wife. Ritu says that we understand each other problems by looking on the face and so we respect each other’s feelings.
4. He does not force his wife to speak in a highly manner way. Just look at their casual conversation and the way they converse, its awesome and which is far beyond the normal chat we do. Even in front of others they still speak in a similar way.
5. They never bring their office issues at home. Being in a service line tensions and problems are normal but they believe in not brining any issue or dispute at home.
6. Both of them are doting parents of a beautiful girl ‘Rashbhari’. They are instilling the same values of being humble and grounded into their daughter. They do not show off or buy very branded clothing for their daughter. They all are shown in normal outfits and which look amazing on them too.
7. I think the way they talk, speak and behave its all because of their background. Ritu Rathee has sisters and a single brother and she knows how girls are often not given ample opportunities in our society. She is a real example of proving own talent and standing tall on our own. In many videos I have seen her supporting girls parents. For example in one of the latest marriage vlog posted by Gaurav on ‘Flying Beast’ when Gaurav says food serving is stopped till the barat arises, she replies yes ‘karna padta hai’.
8. Their initiative ‘RashbhariChai’ which asks users to buy tea and give minimum Rs. 20 which is multiplied by any amount a person wishes to pay for it an exchange.

What is Reiki if you ask me…so as a Reiki practitioner I can say that it is nothing but the power of your body that can help you to heal with your problems.

Reiki is inside every one, the only thing is to energize it to bring out the best of yourself. You might have heard about the magical power of Sai Baba Ji. He would treat people just with the magical power of his hands. He used to wave and the magic would happen!!!. So, that was only the power in his hands.

Reiki is every where!!.. You have seen the sun gives its warmth to everyone without seeing the caste or gender. This is all Reiki only.

Do I also have Reiki Power?

Yes. Everyone has power in his body and one can enhance the power by following few reiki practices. One can also learn Reiki practices but need to take attenuation from a Reiki master first.

Affirmations play an important role in Reiki practices. Affirmations come with positive mindset. Positivity and believing that the things are happening play a major role in one’s life.

If we start thinking positive and believing in our thoughts, it is true that the thoughts become the reality.

Reiki helps to clean all 7 chakras of our body. Our body is made with this seven channels which influence our aura a lot. Any negative energy on this chakras can cause imbalance in our health and aura.

Click here to buy this beautiful Reiki crystal for healing

I would advise everyone to learn this beautiful Reiki way of healing and start changing your life for the betterment. I have learnt it from my Reiki Master and since then following it on myself and others and no doubt have seen the best result.

In Reiki, one can heal someone who is sitting thousands of miles away just by sending Reiki. This is really very interested and proven art of healing. You can do relationship healing also. Any kind of problem be it emotional, physical or spiritual can be cured with Reiki. Now a day, many hospitals have also started keeping a staff who is expert in Reiki practice.

So, what you are waiting for you? Go ahead and learn this beautiful art of healing, and share with us your feedback on this.

Quarantine has changed a lot of things in West Palm Beach and around the nation, but one thing it shouldn’t change is love. You want to get married with your beloved, and you can still do it if you consider the five following tips to have a beautiful wedding under quarantine.

1. Cut the List

The first thing you may want to consider is cutting the wedding guest list. Of course, this only applies if your state allows small gatherings; other states are going to have to reduce the list down to zero.

If you are able to gather, then make sure there aren’t a lot of people and that everyone can maintain social distancing. The reality is that cutting your list is going to help you save money, so that’s a positive thing. Try to stick to close family members and friends. It may be a good idea to monitor everyone’s health to make sure that no one is feeling ill.

2. Photography is Key

A lot of your wedding is going to have to be shared through emails or chats. You are not going to be able to share this moment with every single person, so that means finding a way to capture it all is vital. There are many photographers still willing to work with you during quarantine, just make sure to find the right one in your area. For example, if you live in Florida you can search for a wedding photographer in West Palm Beach.  Since your photographer won’t be able to travel very far it’s important to find someone in your area.

Photographers don’t have to be close to you to take a good picture. They can direct you from afar; they can use sophisticated tools to zoom in and take a close up picture without being close to you. You’ll be able to observe all social distancing suggestions and still be able to document this beautiful day the right way. Talk to a few photographers to find out what kind of additional precautions they’ll be taking for you.

3. Creative Gathering

It’s important that you start to consider creative gatherings, especially if you are in a state where things are difficult. Maybe you know that the people you want at your wedding are high risk, and you don’t want to put anyone in potential danger. Do not fret, there are a number of ways you can continue to have your wedding as long as you can get a little creative.

For example, you can simply have your wedding in front of your computer’s cameras. You can share the live event with everyone you want so that they can see you both tie the knot. Maybe you can have a drive-in wedding. It might be strange, but making sure everyone stays in their cars ensures social distancing. You can have everyone tune in to a specific radio frequency to hear you two say “I do.” Or you can simply have a drive-by reception where your guests drive by to wish you both all the happiness in the world.

4. DIY is Vital

You are both going to have to learn to do things for each other. Yes, you can hire a hairstylist, but make sure he or she can teach you how to do your own hair through video calls.

If you are going to have your wedding inside your home but you can’t have anyone come in to decorate it, then hire an interior decorator that can help you decorate your home through video calls. You are going to have to do most of the work, but you’ll have guidance, and you’ll learn a whole new skill. Make sure your partner is taking on other tasks that need to be completed before the big day.

5. Focus on Gifts

Your loved ones won’t be able to attend if you aren’t going to have many people there or if you are doing this virtually. This means it’s important that you focus your attention on the gifts.

Normally, the people that attend your wedding are going to get treated to a beautiful meal and great entertainment. It may be a good idea to try to figure out a way to give everyone a gift for attending virtually, like a glass of wine for everyone to share on your day. All you have to do is decide on the gift and mail it to everyone you invited.

These are just some of the tips that’ll help you have a good wedding. Talk to a wedding coordinator to see if he or she has additional tips to help you figure out your big day in this new reality.

Online dating is the best way for people to find and know each other using the internet and eventually arrange a date with the primary goal being to develop a personal relationship. The online dating world is full of people who are looking out to have meaningful relationships. There is a wide range of dating websites and services available online. Each and everyone has a slightly different marketing approach to the audience, which is designed to approach various segments of the dating population. While matching the features, these online dating services present a user with dates who have similar characteristics to them. The users can also filter for the potential partners based on the location, age, and other general personal information. However, if you are a guy looking to find your special someone on the internet, you will have to follow specific tips to make the hunt successful.

• Choose the Right Site: Singles nowadays have a lot of options to get help in meeting people online. There are thousands of applications and websites which can help you find your special someone. You have to find out the perfect one for you. You can find out about popular and trustworthy services to help you choose the best site or application. As most of the apps offer free services, you can start your search quickly. To find agencies which provide the service of online dating, you can search for Dating agencies in Sydney to get the list of all the agencies. 
• Add Personality: Creating a proper dating profile is an essential part of the case of online dating. This is the only way you can introduce yourself and tell your potential love interests to the public. It will work just like your resume. Your dating profile should depict who you are, what you are, and what you are looking for. There are plenty of samples available online, which can help you set up your dating profile in the perfect manner. 
• Respect Boundaries: Everyone has certain limitations to keep themselves safe when they happen to meet people online. Some of them might be more lenient and friendly, whereas some of them might be strict. It depends on the things they are comfortable with, and this will differ from person to person. There is no perfect time to tell when it will be OK to ask for the phone number. Let the relation tread carefully and never take your date’s consent for granted. You do not know her accurately and vice versa. 
• Ask Questions: If you have explored the world of online dating, you would have experienced when people disappear on you all of a sudden. You might be thinking everything is going fantastically, and the conversation stops all of a sudden without any warning or intimation. Ghosting has now become a common thing that many people are ghosting online. If you want to keep someone from not losing interest in you, make sure that to give a lot of options for the other person to express. To make this happen, ask questions, and the conversation will never be ending. 
• Make a Move: Men do not have to make the first move. However, if you are ready to take things up a notch, go for it rather than wait for it to happen. This will save more time in the long run. Once you have taken the relationship to a decent level, you should come out and see if the person is interested in going on a date with you. Things will turn out to be great.
• Have a Plan: A lot of people mess things up on the first date. They might arrive late at the restaurant, speak a lot, or choose the wrong place. Always remember that “The first impression is the best impression.” Make sure that the area is beautiful, cozy, and romantic. Plan everything out and execute it with perfection, and the girl is yours.
• Get Offline: The final tip we can give you is to get offline as soon as possible. Getting to know someone in person is excellent, and you have to take the relationship to that level as quickly as possible. Spending time talking through chats and phone calls might seem comfortable, but it will not benefit you in the long run.

Anyone who says they don’t need love, needs love. You could be a  preteen from a small town in Korea wishing for a fairytale love story or a woman seeking her dream man in Sydney. Everyone desires the perfect partner with whom they wish to spend the rest of their lives.Technology is taking over every aspect of how we communicate with each other, including how we approach meeting someone new. Online dating has become such a key part of everyone’s life. It doesn’t matter if you’re sixteen or fourty-two, if you are looking for love then this is the way to go. It is understandable how this can be quite unnerving. You are essentially uprooting and rebuilding yourself on a virtual dimension. Are you someone trying this for the first time? Fret not! If this is the battle then we will fight it! Just continue reading and take the online plunge for love-

Be yourself

This is perhaps the most cliched advice ever, but it works! You need someone who will like you for being you, and that won’t happen if you don’t portray your authentic self. Present yourself in a confident light, be true to who you are and surely the universe will align in your favour.

Know what you want

Are you seeking a serious relationship or something with an expiration date of a few weeks? Deeply think about this and approach dating with a clear mind. And as it’s said, if you know what you want then it’s easier to find it!

Take a chance

Have some courage and take a chance! It is so easy to think ‘what if it doesn’t work out?’ but what if it does? What if it brings you to the best adventure of your life? It will take some work, but all the good things do. You need to open up your arms and drop your guard.

Ask for help

If you are not convinced that a screen with an algorithm will help you find the one, then you can ask for some assistance! If you want, a matchmaker will meet you in person and connect you with someone who best compliments your personality! Matchmakers take all the elements into consideration, whether you are a busy professional or someone ready to settle down with the love of your life. They will understand your needs, interests, and  personality. Matchmaking services are confidential and trustworthy. Meeting a stranger can be daunting, but matchmakers carry out ID verifications to ensure authenticity. You can easily find a matchmaker in Sydney, Brisbane, Gold Coast, or wherever you are!

Be confident but safe

If you connect with someone and strike that initial spark, then by all means meet them in person. But it is equally important to be cautious no matter how genuine the person seems. Choose a fairly public place for the initial meeting and do inform your close family and friends about your whereabouts.

In the words of Pat Benatar, love is a battlefield, so keep all these suggestions in your mind and I assure you that your dating experience in 2019 will go rather smoothly. How we come to find love is always evolving, but the end result of finding the one will bring you the happiness you are looking for. So dip your toes into the world of online dating and actually seek the love you’ve been waiting for!

I am a woman and let me that only,

Today I tell you what I feel and think about being a woman clearly.

Society used to ask me when will I get married,

In the veil of concern, they ordered me to be hurried.

Now when I am a happily married woman and I have a loving spouse,

I am still waiting to get that ‘trophy’ for obeying the society rules by taking marriage vows.

People said, no matter how high your corporate profile is,

what matters most is how ‘goal’ you can make rotis.

(un) fortunately, while I am good at the office front, the shape of my rotis sometimes get disturbed.

But wait, I am not sad because I enjoy eating my simple sabji & roti even if they are burnt.

People said, now when you are married, it’s time to reach the next stop- motherhood,

Only give birth to a son to take the  ‘vanish’ forward- it is something that they ensure I would.

But I would like to ask them- what if their mother has also thought of the same?

In that case, they wouldn’t have been on this earth to pass comment and call me names.

One of my relatives told me “no use of earning if you don’t have a child on whom you can spend money”,

But here I want to tell her that my money funds my vacation and shopping spree.

But yes, sometimes I face a problem when I need to carry huge shopping bags and take out a house key.

Being a woman, people advise me to go for safer career options like teaching,

So that I can manage my house and continue working.

But again, please don’t get angry if I tell you- As a corporate professional, my timings are not fixed,

However, what remains fixed is- my home is well managed (at least I think so), I cook daily, and I am so quick.

I learnt to cook not just because as a woman it is primal,

I did it because it is necessary for survival.

Don’t measure my existence on the basis of my reproduction ability,

I respect elders and try not to harm others, so start appreciating me for my ‘high values fertility’.

Neither a superwoman nor a brave heart,

I am a simple woman who is both naïve and smart.

I cry I smile, I get angry on things,

but being a human, I don’t think it is a sin.

With no desire to defeat men and go above them,

I am at peace where I am.

To me, men are not the matrix against which my success should be measured.

I am competing only with myself and that’s my success mantra which should be treasured.

I don’t want to be a woman who stands behind a successful man,

The reason is simple-when my success is ‘mine’ only, why should credit be shared by man?

At last, just want to tell you, don’t associate me with PINK anymore,

As an epitome of elegance & strength, I embrace all colours and it makes my personality galore.

Image Source: The Ponty Chadha Foundation

This article was originally published at I am a woman who hates PINK and have no intentions to beat any man

A frustrated upset couple in a quarrel not talking after the fight, offended, stubborn, insulted, the jealous man sitting silently on the sofa at home with a sad, depressed, disappointed woman.

Domestic violence can happen to anyone at any time. However, there are some risk factors that make it more likely in some homes than in others. If you are at risk, seek out care immediately from this life-threatening situation.

It’s important to remember that the behaviour of one domestic abuser can be significantly different from others. However, realizing that you are at risk could help you to realize, it is time to get help. Working with domestic violence advocates is the best way to get insight into your own circumstances.

What Makes a Person More Likely to Abuse?

Consider the following risk factors. These common risk factors for domestic violence can be a common sign it is time to get help. You could be in a situation where only one is true. Or, there could be numerous.

Threats

Abusers may threaten to take actions that would cause physical harm to another person. This includes threats against others, such as homicide, but also threats to themselves. Some threaten suicide as a tool to control the behaviours of others.

Stalking

Stalking does not mean just physically following a person. It also can include situations where the abuser follows the movements of an individual online, at work, with friends, and with family. They have a constant need to know where their victim is.

Previous Assaults

Statistics indicate that individuals who have a history of domestic violence are likely to be violent again. However, some people have a history of assault that does not involve the same individual or may involve friends, strangers, children, or even pets.

Access to Firearms

When there are firearms, or other types of weapons, in the home, there is an increased chance that an individual will use them against loved ones. Firearms can provide a tool for threatening.

Depression and Mental Health Concerns

Many individuals who struggle with mental health conditions, including depression, bipolar disorder, and anxiety are at a heightened risk to abuse others. This does not mean all individuals with depression are a risk.

Jealousy and Possessiveness

Many abusers are continuously jealous of their victims. This can include constant questions about where they are and what they are doing. It also includes possessiveness in not wanting their victim to spend time with third parties.

Drug and Alcohol Consumption

Drugs and alcohol can be a tool to break down inhibitions, but in some, they can also create aggressiveness and encourage reckless behaviour. Individuals who are using drugs or alcohol are more likely to abuse than those that do not.

Lack of Respect for the Law

Individuals who have been involved with law enforcement previously, including those who have charges of abuse, are more likely to abuse than those who do not. If they do not respect police officers or any type of governing body, this can be a risk factor for abuse.

Previously Traumatized Individuals

Some individuals struggle with previous traumas or violence impacting them from childhood. Those who are abused as children are more likely to abuse victims in their own adulthood.

Many other factors can increase the risk of a person becoming an abuser. This includes things like unemployment, pet abuse, controlling behaviours, and destruction of property. Seeking out care is essential for any abused individual who sees these signs in their abuser.

Raksha Bandhan is a Bond of Love and Protection

Rakhi is a sacred vow, symbolizing the promise of protection and affection from every brother to his sister. This age-old traditional festival holds the power to strengthen the bonds of love and unity among family members, transcending religious and cultural boundaries.

Let this Rakshabandhan be more than just a routine family gathering. Infuse life into it by exploring great ideas online to make it truly special and memorable. This auspicious festival comes around once a year, and it deserves to be celebrated with enthusiasm and energy.

Here are some points to help you celebrate this day in an even more meaningful way:

1. Thoughtful Gifts: Select meaningful and thoughtful gifts for your sister that showcase your love and appreciation for her.
2. Personalized Rakhi: Consider getting a personalized Rakhi that reflects your sister’s interests and preferences.
3. Virtual Celebration: If distance keeps you apart, celebrate virtually through video calls and share the joy despite being physically distant.
4. Handmade Rakhis and Gifts: Put your creativity to work by making handmade Rakhis and gifts for a more personal touch.
5. Cook a Special Meal: Prepare a special meal or favorite dishes for your sister to make the day more delightful.
6. Write a Letter: Write a heartfelt letter expressing your emotions and gratitude towards your sister.
7. Surprise Gesture: Plan a surprise gesture, such as arranging a virtual concert, sending a surprise gift, or organizing a small gathering.
8. Charitable Act: Celebrate the spirit of giving by making a donation to a charitable cause in honor of your sister.
9. Family Time: Embrace the spirit of togetherness by involving all family members in the festivities and creating beautiful memories.
10. Capture Moments: Take pictures and capture the moments to cherish them for years to come.

Online Rakhi Services Got Your Back

Online services are the new life savers of every human being nowadays. They have made our lives a lot more simpler and easier. For this rakhi, sisters must send rakhi online to be spoiled with heavy choices along with plenty of discount offers. Online stores have a vivid variety of rakhis ranging from simple rakhi to designer rakhi to handcrafted rakhis. Grab yours before it is too late.

Online stores never play with the quality of the product. Whatever is shown in the picture on the website along with the description, the same it delivered to your footsteps.

Comply with the terms and conditions of the online store and place your order at a same time lapse to get your Rakhis before hand the big day.

Rakhi Sets Serve as Life Jackets

Amidst all the chaos of festivity, one can easily miss out on the count of rakhis. Hence forth, rakhi sets are to the rescue. These are a combination of numerous rakhis and can be customized as per choice and need. By simply ordering rakhi sets in small numbers you are delivered a plenty of rakhis.

You can easily keep a track of rakhis in this manner. Wonder nowhere but move to an E rakhi website. They have a huge collection of rakhi sets to choose from. The prices are pretty reasonable along with best quality. Hence no reason to worry.

Bhabhi Deserves Some Special Treatment as Well

Bhabhi is the perfect summer substitute at places where you can’t take your Bhaiya along or for secrets which the sister in law cannot reveal to Bhaiya. So this rakhi include in celebration your Bhabhi as well. Order bhaiya bhabhi rakhi from an e retail store.

These rakhis perfectly complement each other in shape, colour and design as the duo does to each other in real life. These rakhis can easily be customized as per the requirement by getting the edits done in design, colour or anything. The option of customization is widely available at every e store. Go stalk the website and pick your favorite rakhi for your Bhaiya Bhabhi.

Appropriate Rakhi for Appropriate Age

Kids are the essentials of every family gathering and every festival. They must never be disappointed. To all the elder sisters get lovely kids rakhi for your little superhero.

Kids rakhis are the special rakhis crafted keeping in mind the demands of little kids , which probably are cartoon characters rakhi, super hero rakhi , rakhi with crazy lights, football rakhi, cricket characters rakhi and what not. Do not dim the happiness of these little ones basic rakhi threads instead buy for them these cute rakhis to make their day.

The online stores have special rakhi collection for kids which are absolutely safe for health.

Let Technology Do Some Work

As the lifestyle of people have been evolving with passing time, the festival of rakhi has gained utmost popularity and is celebrated very elaborately. Far off physical locations may sometimes bring an abstract feeling amongst the siblings.

This rakhi bring back the warmth of relations and send rakhi online to your brothers. Online store provide the facility of online payment and doorstep delivery. You can pay the amount and get it delivered to your brother’s house. Look up a perfect rakhi website to accomplish this task.

Remember, Rakshabandhan is about expressing love, care, and protection for your sister. Embrace the true essence of the festival and celebrate it with joy and sincerity.

If your hobby becomes your job, you have found everything. I was always fond of putting my knowledge into words. I believe in sharing knowledge, since sharing it multiplies your own knowledge too. I was longing for a platform that could connect me with people. I was working as a software engineer in an IT company but I wanted to have a book of my own ideas. But I was clueless. I became more eager to convert my passion into earning after being blessed with a baby girl.

That time I was deliberately looking to set up my side business so that I can look after my one year old little one too, my hobby and of course earnings. Luckily, I came to know about the world of blogging in the year 2008 in the same year. I was fortunate to know and come in contact with my co-worker who was looking into SEO (Search engine optimization). He had a website in which he used to exchange links in a renowned website ( couldn’t recollect the name) and would often earn in the exchange process. But it’s true everything happens for reason,  I had to quit a job due to long distance journey that I had to cover daily.

Why Blogging is not Everyone’s Cup of Tea?

That was the time I thought to give blogging a chance. Wasting no time, I purchased a laptop and opened many blogs like mykittu.blogspot.com, healthtipsforeverone.blogspot.com etc on Blogspot. I used to write a few things daily, even after a substantial period of time, I was not able to hit bull’s eye. I was writing but something I always felt was missing. Soon I got to know that I was not paying attention to the things like keywords, content, Seo, promotion or other things that were needed to make any blog a real Blog!!

Meanwhile, I had to opt for a full-time job to meet our expanding expenses. Once again blogging rolled back onto backstage. Still, whenever I got time, I would write on healthtipsforeverone.blogspot.com.  as it was based on health and I always liked to write on health and fitness. I did apply for Google Adsense many times but every time it got rejected.

I always dreamt to have my own website. In the year 2013, with the grace of almighty, I started my own blog Omilights.com. I believe that sky is the limit for knowledge, there are so many things to know, explore and distribute in this world. I did not want to restrict myself to limits, so finally I created my own website to cover information of all the categories in the world. It has completed four years, so I decided to share my story with you all.

Why “Omilights” and what does it mean?

People often ask why “Omilights” and what is the meaning of Omilights. So this is for them…

When I decided to start my own website, the first question was the domain name. I was struck at this point as the content and idea were ready but the name of our identity was still not known. So I asked my husband, Vinay what should be the name and pat came the reply “Omilights“. I asked why and what made him think on that and he said: “Omi” is his mother’s name while lights mean “Roshni” in Hindi which is my mother’s name and combining together both the name is “Omilights”:).

I am happy I asked my husband and he suggested me the right name. He has been lucky for me in many cases before also and this time too he proved to be correct.

When Omlights Started Getting recognition?

After keeping great patience in June 2016  I found a mail from Google Adsense regarding the approval of my Google Adsense account.  It was a kind of miracle for me as I had given all hopes of Google Adsense approval, at least in this life. Without wasting any time I opened my website admin panel and added the Adsense code in the respected file, and no wonder the ads started showing!!!

Meanwhile, my responsibilities were doubled up ( I was blessed with a baby boy also :)). Managing home, kids and a full-time job was like a tug of war. Consistency paid finally when I checked my Adsense account in May 2017 and found it to have $2.0. Everybody wants a reward in the life to boost up morale. The reward can be in form of money or praise and appreciation. Few dollars where sufficient to push me. Since then I am writing on consistently without a daybreak.

Many bloggers have asked to connect with us and we ourselves invite all of you to connect with us so that we can connect with the world with this amazing power of words.

There is a famous writing by Majhrooh Sultanpuri

Main Akela hi Chala that janib-e-manzil Nagar
Log saath late Gaye our karwaan Banta gaya.

Slowly people are becoming aware that Omni lights exist. We made many friends also who do guest blogging on Omilights.com.  There are few writers who write on daily basis on the website and it’s their hard work only that the website has excelled a lot. Thanks, bro everyone who had been a part of my journey.

Tips to maintain your Blog(s)

People consider Writing as a very simple thing and so the Blogging but this is not the truth. Starting a blog is simple and many people start it with the aim of earning or setting up as their optional side business but keeping it to sustain is difficult and many of them give up after not getting the results.

I started blogging because I love writing and wanted to Connect with the World with the Power of Words. I do not earn with blogging but it gives me inner satisfaction and a feeling of contentment that is why I write even after a full-time job and having two small kids whenever I get time.

1. Write good quality of content. Grammatically poor content can create a negative reputation in the mind of the reader at first place.

2. Spread your account on social media platforms and don’t forget the power of Twitter and Instagram. The more traffic you get on your website, better would be.

3. Do guest blogging on the websites of good PR rank.

4. Don’t put poor quality content on your website.

5. Send mailers regularly about the latest on your website. You can send the latest article published by you through emails to your readers. But do not overdo two emails in a week is enough.

6. Apply for Google Adsense account. Google is very particular about the content you publish on the website before approving this.

7. You can apply for affiliate marketing. Affiliate marketing is the way you put a link on your website and following which if someone buys some product, you get the commission.

8. Last but the most important thing is to have patience and be consistent and progressive. As blogging would not fetch you millions of dollars in a short time. Keep doing good work.